Transforming Lives Safely

You have everything you need within you

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Welcome - I’m Ruby

Women told me I gave them the courage to make decisions and start believing in themselves. They said they didn’t know what abuse or trauma was until they met me and in two and a half years, they became independent. They dared to Imagine Life Without Abuse. What I had done was share Define Yourself! my Signature Program with them.

I then wrote Healing from Narcissistic Abuse - Journeys from Abuse to Freedom to share their daring journeys from being completely lost to finding freedom. Now, I’m making Define Yourself! available to everyone.

What I do is create safe spaces for women to heal from invisible, hidden scars, whether they’re from a relationship, childhood or generational trauma - I never want to re-traumatise anyone, ever. Unspoken pain needs to be released but you don’t have to speak about it to do that. You need a trauma-informed practitioner who practices this art. It allows you to trust yourself and begin creating the life you want. No guilt. No judgement.

I invite you to join me on a journey of self-discovery:

‘Life is the letter C between B and D. B is Birth, D is Death and C is the Choice you make in between’ (Jim Kwik).