Meet Ruby
What is done to you does not define you.
With the right set of tools and a trauma-informed safe space you can make the changes you need to make.
I wrote Healing from Narcissistic Abuse - Journeys from Abuse to Freedom after women told me that I had changed their lives. They used the information I gave them from my program Define Yourself!
They told me Define Yourself! gave them the courage they needed to make decisions.
I am making Define Yourself! available to everyone whether you feel unsafe at home or in a relationship or whether something doesn’t feel quite right for you.
I’ll create a safe space for you and you choose to share if you want to. I’ll provide the resources and explain how everything works. You’ll be better-informed so you can make decisions knowing what you want to do.
Author
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse - Journeys from Abuse to Freedom
Stories, Tools + Community for Healing Curious Humans
Chapter 7: Unknown, Lost, or Forgotten: How Our Wombs Experience Domestic Violence and Trauma BestSeller Status 2025
Writer: Her Nation Global Magazine since April 2024
Education/Training
BDAF - Domestic Abuse Trainer, UK (since 2006)
DipPs - Diploma Probation Studies, UK
MSc - Policy Studies
Freedom Program Facilitator (since 2006) - DV program
Certified Trauma Facilitator and Trainer, licensed in the BeyondTrauma modality with Mayameen Meftahi (since 2021)

