I’ve been working with women for over 30 years and understand how
narcissism and coercive control work. I’ve been working with men since
2007 and I realised how they too had unresolved trauma because no one
seemed to be listening to them.

I created a domestic violence program called Define Yourself! which I’ve made available for everyone after a number of people told me they became independent of their abusers by using the information I shared with them. 

After I was attacked in 2020, I attended the BeyondTrauma program and became a Certified Facilitator for the BeyondTrauma program in 2021. In 2025 I qualified as a BeyondTrauma Trainer and now deliver the trauma informed practice to practitioners to help them ensure they are practising in a trauma-informed way.

I don’t ask intrusive questions in either of the programs I deliver. I create safe spaces for you to share, ONLY if you wish to. I’ll provide you with resources and explain how everything works. You’ll make better-informed decisions as you’ll have a wealth of information and knowledge with which to make those decisions.

For more information or a discussion, email on: info.inshiraa@gmail.com.